So school for students ended yesterday. Time to look back and look forward.
One thing I’ve learned about MKs (missionary kids), or at least the students in our very transient international Christian mission school, is that they learn some very interesting coping skills quite early on. They get real tired, real fast, of friends coming and going…and faculty coming and going…that they learn to stay away from folks that aren’t going to be around for very long. They are a very tight knit group with the students and adults that are around for long lengths of time.
One of the highlights of my entire career happened early in the Spring semester this year…just mere months ago. Students and parents all know that CCA typically writes 2-year contracts for faculty/staff members. I believe this is a good thing because at least there is SOME continuity for students! But they know this…and some students/entire classes know how to push the buttons to test your endurance.
Anyway, one class in particular is very good at pushing the buttons of the new teacher and getting him/her to question his/her ability/tenacity/stick-to-it-ness. They did it to me last year and they did it to the new teacher this year. But perseverance is a good thing with this crew.
So a couple of students from this particular class approached me tentatively during lunch one day. This was not the approach of the, “Hey, Mr. Pill I have a question about class…” Neither was it the “Hey, Mr. Pill, did you hear the one about…” No, this was the approach of the young teen seeking something meaningful. This was the tentativeness that told me curriculum was NOT the topic du jour! Their question was one of sincerity and one of sincere emotion. The question was, “Hey, Mr. Pill…so, um, we know that your 2 years is coming up at the end of this school year, and, um, well, we just wanted to know if, you know, um, like, are you like, coming back next year, you know?”
Yes…I know…
My response was simple. And I repeat it to you now not just in mere fulfillment of the story, but as advice as well. My response was, “Ladies…until God slaps me upside the head with a 2×4, we’re staying here! So unless you have some knowledge of my being fired, or a word from the Lord, I’ll be here until you graduate.”
The result? Well, they go on their way never to push the proverbial buttons again.
The MKs and the students in our school learn coping lessons…and they need to unlearn some of these too. They tend to maybe push some people away; new students, new teachers, new authority figures in general. It’s a way for them to “already know” that people won’t be staying when they say, “We’re not coming back.”
And the results of being long term?
I got to have a conversation about Biblical topics ranging from the Creation to the New Heavens/Earth and much in between during study times with a student this year.
Allison and I got to facilitate a wonderful small group of high school students diving into Philippians. This group not only wants to stick together, but also wants to do another study on male/female relationships and interactions and use it as an outreach for some students in the school and other places as well.
I’ve had another student ask if I was going to be here for her graduation. I answered in the affirmative.
So in regards to the advice I would give about this…you’ve got to invest in people! It doesn’t matter if they are leaving in a year or in two years or in 3 months. If you live your life NOT investing in the people around you because of the fear of saying goodbye, then you’ll be basically a hermit congratulating yourself on how smart you are in predicting that people will leave in a very transient situation. DUH…
Invest in people’s lives. Get to know them. Love them. Let them into your life. Let them get to know you. Let them love you.
We know NOT the entirety of the details of God’s plans for us as individuals. And we do not know the sort of impact that we can have in the lives of others if we invest in them…especially in education when they leave us and graduate and if they use what they learned from us we never see it, but especially in a place such as this where people are coming and going all the time. Six months might be the only time you have to invest in someone’s life. So we should get to it, yes?
For students reading this…
You might not think that you have an effect on the life of a teacher, but you do. Indeed, you have profound effects on the teachers and staff around you! As I think of the students that have impacted me I think of 2 particular 7th graders that refused to purchase their grades (ask for more details if you need more details). I think of one of my 8th grade yeyecitas that wrote me an encouraging end of the year note explaining some of the impact I had on her. I think of some of the graduating Seniors going to college and the insight they brought to Bible study each Friday night. I think of the sarcastic females that if I didn’t know better I would assume were my own daughters. I think of students in leadership roles because they understand the concept of legacy and planting a shade tree NOT for your own comfort and enjoyment, but for the future. I think of my own son who has fallen in love with languages and wants to translate indigenous languages and write Bibles in their own language and teach people to read. I think of my other son who teaches me to have fun in all situations.
Damas y Caballeros, you have great impact upon your teachers and the rest of the staff. I know. La Señora Oficina knows.
Anyway, I’ve had a wonderful year this year. I took on a new role as the High School Coordinator and got to learn under the tutelage of an experienced teacher and administrator and simultaneously I got to begin and continue to work with a younger, less experienced new administrator for next year as he and I develop some new ideas and plans for next year and the future. What a wonderful place for me to be! Right smack dab in the middle of it all!
In regards to next year, I look forward to our new crop of Seniors. And I look forward to the current 10th graders stepping it up as Juniors. And I cannot wait to see my crew of 8th graders take on the green shirts and really do some good stuff! I want to encourage them to join student council and really make this school their own. I look forward to science curriculum review. I look forward to our Physics teacher teaching online, virtually and distantly, from Virginia and how that will work out. I look forward to teaching one less class than this year and taking on more administrative roles. I look forward to seeing how my adopted daughters perform in the classroom with a year under their belts. I look forward to increased AP courses. I look forward to small group discipleship on Wednesdays. I’m excited about my new microscopes with the 3″x3″ heads up display as opposed to squinting to look through the oculars of the old scopes. I look forward to increased relationships with my students and in pushing the teachers that I serve onwards and forwards to bigger and better things in the realms of student achievement!
I’m excited for next year already and I’ve still got to go to work this Monday and Tuesday and close out this year!
And I’m excited about going to church at La Iglesia Biblica Ebenezer tomorrow in la mañana! I cannot wait to see Hermano Reuben and ask how things are going and see if there are any needs that I can provide…and to be encouraged by the flock that he leads; they are awesome!
So, as I’m tired and weary from this long year, I’m energized from this wonderful year! And as I need to get some rest, and Allison needs to get some rest, we shall only rest for a bit. Allison is going to language school for 4 weeks this summer, starting in a week, and I’ll be working towards next year as soon as I can and calling the Florida DOE about what all I need to do for re-certification. So it’s going to be an interesting summer…maybe not so extremely busy, but exciting nonetheless.
I’m so thankful for being right in the middle of God’s Will. And I couldn’t ask to be more content than I am right now. So off to bed I go! Lord willing, the earth will continue to spin and I’ll see another sunrise and begin again getting ready for another year at CCA!
God bless all of you that read this and continued to the end. It doesn’t get much more random access than this from me…but sometimes even the planners need to ramble a bit.
Soli Deo Gloria!